The 15th of October has been dubbed International Pregnancy and Infant Loss Remembrance Day as I was reminded today. The idea is very simple: Light a candle from 7-8pm your local time in remembrance of those who have been lost too young. I’ll be lighting two candles, one for Blueberry and one for Butterbean. It’s a nice way of paying tribute to these little ones who have had an impact on our lives though we never met them. It’ll be my way of acknowledging the dreams, hopes, fears, love and sore boobs I experienced. Each day gets easier but the loss will always be there no matter what.